Questions and Answers

Sorin Ștefan Diaconu, Alba Iulia: “I think I am a normal man. I have qualities and drawbacks, like everybody. There is a “but”, of course, meaning that, even if I do the things right, they go wrong exactly when I need them more to turn out well. I am referring to my job, especially, and to girls. I am not ugly or stupid, I am educated and I’m not bad… Read More »Everything I do is wrong!

Loredana C., Slobozia: I received a prayer that people say it is, to quote, very powerful! It is an Orthodox prayer to Mother of God, but I don’t know, something doesn’t sound right… what do you think? You, the community… thank you! Lelia Marcu: Prayers are less powerful or more powerful, depending on the state of the one praying, right? One may have a serious problem and, in this case,… Read More »A very powerful prayer!

Rebeca Onisor: My lady, I am a Roma woman. There are some rules we have and things are not good for me from this perspective, because I love a man from another country, other race and my parents don’t agree and when I say they don’t agree I mean the worst, they said they won’t even see me again, if I were to choose this guy. I’m 22, I’m a… Read More »I love a man from another country, other race and my parents don’t agree!

Ioan Alexe, Timișoara: Good evening, everyone! I chose to talk about my problem because it’s become bothering and scary, although I know there’s nothing serious with my mind or with my tension and pulse. Let me tell you: when I am sad or very angry, I have terrible headaches that I can’t handle. I may be a man, but I’m wailing like a baby. I haven’t found anything else besides… Read More »I’ve been having some headaches I can’t handle!

S.I. from Hațeg: Mrs Lelia, the nuns from Prislop don’t let us read the akathist of Father Arsenie Boca because, they say, he hasn’t been canonised. Then, why do they let people come to his tomb, as to a saint? Lelia Marcu: Father Arsenie Boca is a saint, I myself confessed this before many people. Despite this, it’s normal not to read his akathist until being canonised, because praise should… Read More »Should we read the akathist of Father Arsenie Boca?

Costi Costi, Iași: Good day! I have sometimes some back pains, especially when I’m bending too long, I can’t even straighten back. I am so scared of diagnosis, doctor and surgery that I’m not going in a million years. The problem is it makes me stay in bed and I can’t go to work. I am 29, I am from Iasi and I’m doing physical work, as a grinder. What… Read More »I’m afraid to go to the doctor’s!

Cristina Sanda: Mrs Lelia Marcu, all day long I keep fighting with my husband, he is reproaching that he is always bringing money at home and that I don’t do anything. What should I do? I keep the house clean, I cook, I work from morning till night and I take care of the children. Lelia Marcu: Next month, the day he gets his salary, you should send him an… Read More »I’m fighting with my husband!

Cosmina Boier from Italy, Genova: “Esteemed Mrs Lelia, for about two years, I have been experiencing some strange condition that makes me believe I have serious problems, and although I have seen 100 doctors, they didn’t find anything physical, they only tell me to see a psychiatrist. I have, he gave me some pills that gave me confusion and dizziness, I admit that medication has diminished some of the symptoms, only… Read More »“I am Deepening into an Ocean of Sadness!”

Gina Cojocaru, from Bacău: “There are many things I would like to say, to ask you Mrs Lelia, but I am only asking this: God, when my child died, where was He? Thank you!” Lelia Marcu: I have no idea, my Lady, where He was, but I assume He was busy to take him to Heaven, where he belonged. I am returning your question: when you had an abortion, God,… Read More »“When My Child Died, Where Was God?”

Vasile Doru Constantin, Germany: I asked God to make me healthy, I have been suffering of a coeliac disease for a long time. At least, so I understood it is called. If it comes to eating, I can’t eat anymore. If it comes to sleeping, no good sleep. It affects my work, my life, my family, I feel like taking destiny in my hands and do away with myself. However,… Read More »“Is There Still Anything I Can Do in order to Be Healed?”